DESPERATE HOUSEWIVES - "One Wonderful Day" - It's a not-so-wonderful day in the neighborhood, as past actions come back to haunt the men and women of Wisteria Lane. Meanwhile, the ladies get a new neighbor (Emmy winner Alfre Woodard as Betty Applewhite), on "Desperate Housewives," SUNDAY, MAY 22 (9:00-10:02 p.m., ET), on the ABC Television Network. (ABC/DANNY FELD) BRENDA STRONG, HARRIET SANSOM HARRIS