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GREY'S ANATOMY - "The Becoming" - The nurses' objections to McSteamy's trysts lead to the instating of a new "date and tell" policy. Meanwhile news of Burke's latest career achievements force Cristina to face her feelings for her ex, Meredith and Derek admit a veteran soldier into their clinical trial, and Callie turns to Sloan in her time of need, on "Grey's Anatomy," THURSDAY, MAY 8 (9:00-10:02 p.m., ET) on the ABC Television Network.  (ABC/VIVIAN ZINK)PATRICK DEMPSEY, ELLEN POMPEO
The Becoming
Season 4 | Episode 14 | Aired 05/8/08
Derek and Meredith are perfectly in sync during Darren’s surgery. Derek offers to stay with Meredith to monitor their patient throughout the evening. But Meredith tells him to go home with Rose. Darren crashes later that night and dies. Derek brings Meredith a bottle of champagne. They are going to open it when they finally save a patient with their clinical trial. They’ll also make a toast to all the ones they lost.

Bailey manages to smooth things over between Mark and the nurses. Of course, she does label McSteamy a “man whore” in the process. Sloan feels bad about that but Derek seems to feel worse. He admits to Mark that he finally slept with Rose…but was thinking about Meredith the whole time.

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  • GREY'S ANATOMY - "The Becoming" - The nurses' objections to McSteamy's trysts lead to the instating of a new "date and tell" policy. Meanwhile news of Burke's latest career achievements force Cristina to face her feelings for her ex, Meredith and Derek admit a veteran soldier into their clinical trial, and Callie turns to Sloan in her time of need, on "Grey's Anatomy," THURSDAY, MAY 8 (9:00-10:02 p.m., ET) on the ABC Television Network.  (ABC/VIVIAN ZINK) SARA RAMIREZ, ERIC DANE, BROOKE SMITH
  • GREY'S ANATOMY - "The Becoming" - The nurses' objections to McSteamy's trysts lead to the instating of a new "date and tell" policy. Meanwhile news of Burke's latest career achievements force Cristina to face her feelings for her ex, Meredith and Derek admit a veteran soldier into their clinical trial, and Callie turns to Sloan in her time of need, on "Grey's Anatomy," THURSDAY, MAY 8 (9:00-10:02 p.m., ET) on the ABC Television Network.  (ABC/VIVIAN ZINK) PATRICK DEMPSEY, ERIC DANE
  • GREY'S ANATOMY - "The Becoming" - The nurses' objections to McSteamy's trysts lead to the instating of a new "date and tell" policy. Meanwhile news of Burke's latest career achievements force Cristina to face her feelings for her ex, Meredith and Derek admit a veteran soldier into their clinical trial, and Callie turns to Sloan in her time of need, on "Grey's Anatomy," THURSDAY, MAY 8 (9:00-10:02 p.m., ET) on the ABC Television Network. (ABC/VIVIAN ZINK) ANDRE WARE, JOHN M. JACKSON, ELLEN POMPEO, PATRICK DEMPSEY
  • GREY'S ANATOMY - "The Becoming" - The nurses' objections to McSteamy's trysts lead to the instating of a new "date and tell" policy. Meanwhile news of Burke's latest career achievements force Cristina to face her feelings for her ex, Meredith and Derek admit a veteran soldier into their clinical trial, and Callie turns to Sloan in her time of need, on "Grey's Anatomy," THURSDAY, MAY 8 (9:00-10:02 p.m., ET) on the ABC Television Network.  (ABC/VIVIAN ZINK) JOHN M. JACKSON, BENNY CIARAMELLO, ELLEN POMPEO
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