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It depends on the guy I'm in the situation with. I wouldn't leave Jake for any job.

I think love is more important but.. in saying that I don't think the Bachelor is LOVE.. he LOVES everyone.. I think when it is all said and done she should keep her job.

I think the Bachelor show gets more disgusting each week. You insult our intelligence with all the fake/staged drama. Last night I turned it off!!! I can't take it any longer.......the producers should be ashamed!!! You completely ruined a good show....it gets worse each season!

If I felt the way Ali feels about Jake and the things he said I would stay.

She made the only rational choice that she could given her situation. It is difficult to be 25 and starting your career; she had no guarantee from a guy who she clearly questioned his decision making. I think she was dead on. If JAKE CAN FALL FOR SOMEONE LIKE VIENNA - THEN HE PROBABLY ISN'T GOING TO BE HER LIFE LONG PARTNER. Sorry don't want to sound like a Vienna basher she just doesn't come off as being ready for what a marriage requires. She needs her daddy and her dressed up dog. If the producers have played her out to be someone she is not we will eventually see that. It seemed confirmed that she has issues given the step mothers confesssion that she has always had trouble with other girls etc...

LOVE of course!! She just wanted to create drama...looked like poor acting to me...she almost cracked a smile, her messing her hair and whiny crying was pathetic. I was waiting for her to stamp her feet and demand he choose her right now...bye bye Ali.....you are a bad actress and a baby. Be a big girl and decide for yourself what to do.

Why does this show think it has to keep manufacturing Drama? I'm sick of it! C'mon do they really think we believe this stuff? Those girls and guys for that matter sign contracts. They have their time all set aside beforehand. I mean, the acting is atrocious. Her crocodile tears were so fake, they made me laugh. It's so predictable...show she's going to come back and ask him to take her back at the last minute. The show was good when it was honest , people looking for love, but this is turning into Trashy manufactured unreality, reality soap opera baloney. First Jason sends Molly away and picks Melissa then changes his mind on TV! We all hated that, did they think that was good Television. I barely watched the show the next season. I didn't even see ED leave..but I'm sure that was as phoney as this...and now Ally is suddenly having to chose between work and the show? PLUUEEEAAASSSE? Get original...or just let things happen the way they really happen...don't make ur Bachelors keeps saying they're falling in love with everyone..it just cheapens the whole thing. Don't keep jerking around with fake drama...just let it happen. Reality is way more interesting than this fake Manufactured DRAMA!

Unfortunately, with today's economy, I would have to choose the job. As the saying goes, if you love something, set it free, if it comes back it is yours, if it doesn't it never was. If Jake truly loves Ali, he will go after her after the show is over.

Ali is playing a game with it.... she can't face the idea of losing out to Vienna so she sabbatoged it for herself instead. She didn't want to take the risk of taking the chance of winning his heart by staying in the game. The uncertainty was killing her. She is living on a cloud thinking that if it's true love, he will come running after her now gone that she's gone! Drama Queen!

I would have thought if you went on a show like this, really hoping to find love, you would have cleared it with your place of employment to be gone for the length of the show. I don't know what I would do in this situation though. If I felt that I had a good shot at being the last one standing, I would take the chance. After all if we were really getting married, I would assume that I would be relocating anyway.

I would choose work. But that's just the kinda person I am. She did the right things. The love question was too unsure.

if i knew i had a chance i would choose love over a job, if u r that good at what u do then it shouldnt b hard to find another job, love isnt that easy to find....i am SOOOOO glad ali is gone though, she is a drama starting girl, and she is sooo fake, she just wanted the publicity, she couldnt answer jakes hard questions

I'd choose the chance at love. After all, isn't that why Ali signed up to be on the Bachelor. The whole "Ali leaving" scene seemed quite staged to me.

Depends on how much I enjoyed my job and how much I liked the guy. If I knew this was the one and was madly in love with him and he with me, and he could support me until I relocated and found a job, I would go for it.

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No way would I pick a guy over a good job...u can always find a guy...they r on every street corner...plus Jake is not the last nice guy on earth for gosh sakes....good decision Ali...

I'd choose love if I at least had a 95% feeling that it was heart felf on the other end. But what happened to being discrecionary during the show??? Jake and Vienna have been spotted in a little town in Florida the second week of the show. UGH I know it's not me marrying her but really Jake?? Everything you were looking for on the Bachelorett and what you are settling for with Vienna are so opposite. Vienna and her family come off a little on the white trash side. She totally thinks she needs to be put on a pedastel and though you may find that cute now, it will get old and she will become very demanding of you and that doesn't make for a happy marriage. She's putting on the show for the publics eye and I don't buy her families excuse of how other women are just intimidated by her. She pushes those buttons all by herself. And think about the father-in-law you would get, wow what a winner he seemed to be. You can go gator hunting for your bonding moments! If this is his choice, I think that I will have to find another Monday program to watch. Ali and Tenley are so much more his type and the right fit. It's not love he's feeling more like lust which fades all to quickly.

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Sadly I would have gone back to work.

The job is a guarantee, Jake is not. In today's economy I can understand her decision. She is young and has thousands of people who would like her job. I think she will come back. If not, then as long as it is not Vienna I don't care. I think Gia is a little to immature for him. I will cheer for Tenley if Ali is gone.

I HOPE he doesn't choose Vienna. I think he should choose 2 of the other girls. If Vienna wants him to treat her like a Princess, than shes in wonderland. I think that Ali would of been perfect for him but her feelings weren't there for Jake because he job was more important than he was. I would of chose LOVE over work if I was her, but that is her and shes going to have to live with reqrets and Jake didn't run after her, thats his problem. Just HOPE to God he doesn't choose Vienna, she looks like trouble and the other blonde girl the dancing one looks good for him, they make a cute pair!! This is only what I think!!! I hope you find real love Jake:-}

That's hard to say. I can see both sides of it. On one hand she could end up with the love of her life and on the other she could end up jobless. The fact that Jake really wanted her to stay says a lot, not to mention how genuinely sad he was to see her leave. In my opinion she could have been the one for him (or could still be if she comes back and if Jake still really loves her.) Out of the final 4 and even before that everything between them seemed real. I really think they were falling in love. Have a little faith and take a chance. On the flip side of that Jake had 3 other women, one I'm still now sure why she's still there, but that's up to him not me. It makes sense taking your job over Jake. It's hard to find a job these days and if you have a good one then hold on to it. Be glad you have a job. I guess I don't really know how to answer that. I'm glad it was them and not me. I'd be in tears too if it was me.

I think that if he new for sure she was the one he would have stopped her from leaving. I think if at the end he knows the one is not the three girls left he knows where she lives so go after her. I hope he pics Gia.

A chance of Love- Love is worth risking EVERYTHING for.