Shawn is falling in love with Kaitlyn, but can't handle watching watching the other guys talk about falling in love with her too. Kaitlyn had told him in San Antonio -- off camera -- that he was it, that he was "The One." But now that he has to stand by as other men build relationships with Kaitlyn, he feels like he's losing her. He feels like maybe he'd be better off if Kaitlyn never told him how she felt. From Week 7 of the 2015 season of The Bachelorette.